Five Fab Ladies

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“The strength of women comes from the fact that psychology cannot explain us. Men can be analysed, women … merely adored.” OSCAR WILDE, The Ideal Husband

One of the gems of getting older and wiser is the joy of making your own friends. No longer are you subject to being frenemies with the girl down the street just because you ride the same bus and hey! you might as well deal since you’ll see everyday for 13 long and treacherous years. See also; no lingering affects like 15 years later when said girl befriends you on Facebook. Also, also, MOVE ON. As you find yourself you also find people and this case, women, who make the world around you better. Women whose mere presence makes you happier and in the case of these five women, people whose words make you think or make you want to do better and learn more. I star their posts and hug them harder in hopes that fabulousness comes via osmosis.
It does not but these are just five of the many women who I get to call friend and who allow us to read them.

Susan Wagner – We all know that Susan is one of my best friends. My confidante. The one I can call at any time to be like, dude, do you know what happens when you’ve had three vodka gimlets? As I’m staring at my ceiling trying to  remember how I even got into bed. Susan is that friend who doesn’t judge and worries about me constantly. That kind of friendship where you get a little teary eyed as you pinch yourself because, damn, you are lucky. The other fabulous thing about Susan is that she is a fantastic fashion blogger who knows pretty much everything. She can tell you the proper way to wear a belt and how to care for your underthings. She’ll tell you exactly how you look or how the maxi dress you covet might be hard to pull off. She always looks her best and she wants the rest of us to look great too.

Joanne Bamberger – Not only has Joanne become a dear friend but she’s one of very few people that I would actually consider going into business with (HA! Wouldn’t you like to know!). When it comes to women in politics it is Joanne I go to first because she gets it and we compare notes nodding with each other because being The Girl in the Boy’s Club is difficult. I often find myself wrapped up in the politics of working in politics and it is Joanne who I turn to in order to remind me why I do what I do and the importance of it all. She’s a role model who knows that smart women need to make their voices heard.

Helen Jane Hearn – If you want to entertain but not do it all Martha Stewart style but regular people, I just got the kids to ballet and now I need to make a risotto for a Progressive Dinner, style then Helen Jane is your girl. First of all, she’s been blogging since 2000 back when typewriters, rotary phones and hand-coding a website were in style. So, she’s been around the block. She’s experienced and whip smart, yes, but what I absolutely love about this girl is that she wants you to enjoy entertaining. She makes fun look pretty. She’s a doll who hands out champagne at parties and when you’re with her you know that the party has arrived. She recently interviewed me for her Party People series on her new site HJ Entertains. She’s the girl who makes you want to go out and enjoy something instead of sitting home in your ratty pi’s.

Karen Walrond – When people ask me about her my first thought is that I love her. She is a woman who wants you – yes YOU – to not just know your beauty but to know your worth. I remember a conversation with her years ago where I did my typical shoulder shrug ‘I guess…’ thing when she complimented me on my work. She looked at me right in the eyes, touched my arm and said, “No, really. You’re the shit”. I grinned. Like many women I rarely think I’m doing anything special or am all that gorgeous but Karen knows how to bring it out of me. Hell, she brings the beauty out of all of us. Every time I leave her I find myself particularly upset not to be in her presence anymore. She’s the type of woman who you always want around to listen and to be your confidante and tell you that yes, you are amazing, now work it.

Allison Czarnecki – Allison is a new friend who sat next to during the last BlogHer at a fashion panel. We only chatted for a bit though. When I got home I started peeking around her site and reading her regularly. A few months later she posted her Life List and one of the items was to go to Martha’s Vineyard. And because I wanted her brilliance on how to perfect a smoky eye, I quickly sent her a DM to tell her that I HAVE A HOUSE ON MARTHA’S VINEYARD AND YOU SHOULD TOTALLY COME OVER OH PRETTY PRETTY PLEASE! Allison is a how-to guru whereas I would just buy new eyeshadow or use my hard earned money for a manicure, Allison will tell you how to do it yourself for much cheaper and probably better. While others might mock, she’s the person who will totally get your excitement when you tell her about your new blush brush.

So tell me, who are some of your favorite lady bloggers? I’m always looking for new reads. And I’m totally OK if you say, “Heather, I just read you all day, every day.”

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