I would if I could. But I can’t.

“Some people get lost in thought because it’s such unfamiliar territory.”  ~G. Behn

I’m spending the next few weeks here, there and everywhere. With people who will hopefully motivate me and propel me. By the end of March I envision myself as The Little Helicopter That Could. But apropos of this and all other sundry thoughts of a casual Sunday morning, I ask you this: If you could live anywhere, where would that be? Don’t say Fiji or Belize or something based on warmth and the proportion of hot naked men to women, but based on the real things. Things like friends, family, job opportunities, etc. I’ll go first and in no particular order:

1) Northern California

2) Austin

3) Washington, DC

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  1. Posted February 22, 2009 at 1:46 pm | Permalink

    In this order:

    1. Portland
    2. San Francisco
    3. Chicago

  2. Posted February 22, 2009 at 1:47 pm | Permalink

    Speaking of DC, I’m going to be there March 16-22. Let me know if you want to get together and mock gay Republicans again.

  3. Posted February 22, 2009 at 1:52 pm | Permalink

    Having just moved AWAY from Northern California, I would definitely take issue with your #1. (SO SO expensive to live there!) But you’re young and single and you’d probably love it.

    We did a ton of research before moving (we’re talking multiple spreadsheets, aggregation of school test scores, neighborhood pricing etc) (we’re big fat nerds that way) and our list looked like this:

    1. Vancouver, WA (Metro Portland area)
    2. Olympia, WA
    3. Tacoma, WA (but only if we couldn’t find work in #1 or #2).

    You’re talking to the girl who gave good thought to where she would send her child to school in the even that she stayed in DC forever. This was when I was 17. My kids would go to Sidwell. And I will live in a brownstone in Dupont. And I will be rich. Duh.

    Washington is also on my list since I do (kind of) know people there.

  4. Posted February 22, 2009 at 1:53 pm | Permalink

    I live in DC and love it but wouldn’t mind trying out California…

  5. Posted February 22, 2009 at 1:55 pm | Permalink

    In this order:

    1. Manhattan
    2. San Francisco

    Sadly if I move from 1. it will not be to 2. It will be LA, and I am so allergic to that place its not funny. Damn career.

  6. Posted February 22, 2009 at 2:22 pm | Permalink

    After moving to Europe, where I’d always aspired to live, I realized that your criteria (job opps and family proximity) were more important to me than I’d thought.

    So, here you go:
    1. Portland (where I live now, go figure)
    2. San Francisco (where I will live when I win the lottery)
    3. New York (would have to switch professions and downsize possessions but hey, it could happen)

  7. Posted February 22, 2009 at 3:51 pm | Permalink

    (I can open your site! Woo!)

    1. Okanagan (BC, Canada) (Where I live now)

    2. Southern California (Have loved it since I was wee)

    3. Vancouver (Miss it sometimes)

  8. beanery
    Posted February 22, 2009 at 5:29 pm | Permalink

    1. San Francisco
    2. San Francisco
    3. Philadelphia

  9. Posted February 22, 2009 at 5:41 pm | Permalink

    1. San Fran

    2. Boston

    3. Napa Valley

  10. Posted February 22, 2009 at 5:41 pm | Permalink

    I don’t think I’d leave Portland. I love this city, I love this state (um, good thing considering I work for state tourism). But, I do really love Chicago and also Atlanta.

  11. Posted February 22, 2009 at 6:19 pm | Permalink

    1. San Francisco (even though I live here, words cannot express the love I have for this city)
    2. Austin
    3. Portland
    4. D.C.
    5. Nashville
    6. Charleston
    7. Somewhere in Florida

  12. Linda
    Posted February 22, 2009 at 6:27 pm | Permalink

    I lived in MD my entire life (and worked in DC). Now I’m in southern Nevada, which is my #1 choice.

    2. Central Florida. Hate the climate and the congestion, but my best friends live there.

    3. Suburban San Diego. If it only weren’t so expensive, so prone to earthquakes and so California.

  13. Sarah
    Posted February 22, 2009 at 6:30 pm | Permalink

    1. Aventura, FL
    2. San Diego, CA
    3. Cambridge, MA (I currently live in Boston, in a neighborhood I love! And it only tools me 15 years to finally get here!)

  14. Posted February 22, 2009 at 6:53 pm | Permalink

    I live in Ohio and am literally sick EVERY year from October to May. Warmth would have a lot to do with where I want to live.

    1. San Diego, CA

    2. Scottsdale, AZ

    3. Boulder, CO (Not warm, but gah…gorgeous.)

    Thank you for fixing your blog. I wanted to punch that woman in the face, which would have significantly damaged my monitor.

  15. Posted February 22, 2009 at 7:59 pm | Permalink

    1. Washington, DC (where I currently am and friends are… for now)

    2. Upstate (kinda) NY (near family, the other state in which I can currently practice)

    3. Connecticut/New England (in a few years — when I can transfer my practice to other states, still somewhat close to family, and after many friends migrate back to their hometowns around there)

  16. Posted February 22, 2009 at 9:34 pm | Permalink

    It would be so hard for me to leave Portland, too, but that being said:

    1. Vancouver, B.C.
    2. Boston, MA
    3. Nashville, TN
    4. Austin, TX
    5. London, England

  17. anna samantha
    Posted February 22, 2009 at 9:59 pm | Permalink

    I like where I live most of the time although this morning’s snow (how many plans have been foiled by driving conditions this winter?) is calling my love into question and it isn’t where I could be of the most use right now and the cost of living to income potential ratio is sorely out of wack…hey I think I’m going to move!! Now where to?
    1. Crestview, Florida (to help my niece)
    2. Key West, Florida (Mom!!!)
    3. Woodstock,New York (wait…Maybe I’m not moving)

  18. Posted February 23, 2009 at 2:18 am | Permalink

    1. San Francisco
    2. San Francisco
    3. San Francisco
    4. Manhattan … maybe

  19. Jess
    Posted February 23, 2009 at 9:49 am | Permalink

    1. New Orleans
    2. New Orleans
    3. New Orleans

    I have no family or friends there but what an amazing city. The culture and spirit of the people just make me happy. Of course, the beignets help too.

  20. Posted February 23, 2009 at 10:57 am | Permalink

    1. Kansas City (hometown, family, friends)
    2. Boston (I leave bits of my heart there every time I fly out)
    3. Fairfax, VA (I know, I KNOW – but there was something about the area that appealed to me)

  21. Posted February 23, 2009 at 12:41 pm | Permalink

    Although I’m learning to love Chicago, and I certainly feel at home here, there are also places I’d love to explore:

    1. Seattle, WA
    2. Austin, TX
    3. North Carolina

  22. Posted February 23, 2009 at 1:38 pm | Permalink

    1. Northern California
    2. Southern France
    3. New York City

  23. Frantabulous
    Posted February 23, 2009 at 2:01 pm | Permalink

    My dream is to live in Sonoma and work in San Francisco. I have a job opportunity there, but don’t have the balls to move away from my family (who are all in New Jersey). : ( Cue the violin!!!

  24. Posted February 23, 2009 at 8:34 pm | Permalink

    In the following order:

    1. Here. My husband and I are both from this area and our families and friends are all close. I love it here.

    2. France. A few years ago, I lived in Aix-en-Provence and loved it. I just don’t have the money to buy a vacation villa and jetset back and forth lol.

    3. Probably here again. Family friends and all that jazz =)

  25. Posted February 23, 2009 at 9:29 pm | Permalink

    I miss my family in Wisconsin but wouldn’t give up living in Napa Valley for anything in the world. We thought we’d move to Portland because it’s be a trifle more affordable, but no way, Josie, we’re staying in paradise.

  26. Posted February 24, 2009 at 2:47 pm | Permalink

    I am soo happy to see Portland on so many lists, it is my number 1, stateside (although after spending a week in newport beach i am torn)

    1. portland (i live in the olympia area so am close enough)
    2. vancouver
    3. sibiu

  27. Posted February 24, 2009 at 3:51 pm | Permalink

    Mine would be

    1) Phoenix (since I went to school there and my closest friends are there and I’ve been thinking, like REALLY thinking, about moving back there soon)
    2) San Francisco (I miss it so)
    3) San Diego (my ideal place to live)
    4) Chicago (I currently live in a kick ass city)

  28. Posted February 24, 2009 at 6:08 pm | Permalink

    1) Lexington, KY
    2) Madison, WI
    3) Hot Springs, AR
    4) Somewhere far away, where I already have at least one friend, to live for a year (i.e.: Yokohama, Japan; Taipei, Taiwan; Addis Ababa, Ethiopia; or St. Croix, USVI)

  29. Posted February 25, 2009 at 4:11 am | Permalink

    I think you got it right on the first try. You can live in our treehouse while you look for an apartment.

  30. Posted February 25, 2009 at 7:48 am | Permalink

    I would either like to stay where I am:

    1. Lexington, KY

    2. Alaska

    3. Where ever my future grandchildren are…

  31. Posted February 25, 2009 at 7:24 pm | Permalink

    Oklahoma wouldn’t be anywhere on my list.

  32. Posted February 26, 2009 at 3:25 pm | Permalink

    I love how many people are happy about where they live now!

    1.)return to Sarasota FL-friends + climate
    2.)return to Greenville SC-friends + cost of living
    3.)Sacramento CA-family

    I hate to admit how disappointed I am with San Diego

  33. dreadpiraterach
    Posted March 3, 2009 at 6:24 am | Permalink

    Delurking! go me!

    1) Dublin, Ireland. Where my family and my heart reside

    2)London, England. Where I live now. Vibrant, cosmopolitan, it is also where lots of my friends live, and there are jobs that my man and I can get sink our teeth into

    3) Edinburgh, Scotland. Wonderful, wonderful city. Lived here for a year and adored it. Will be back.

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